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“Is My Marriage Over?” (5 Signs Your Marriage Is Doomed)

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If you’re  worried about divorce … if you’re wondering whether your  marriage is doomed … …or if you want to know whether there’s  still hope to turn things around  before it’s too late… Keep reading. “Is My Marriage Over?” The 5 signs I’m going to cover below — which have been proven to indicate a marriage is headed for divorce — are based on proven science. Researchers like  Robert Levenson at the University of Washington  and  John Gottman of the Gottman Institute  have been studying marriage psychology and relationship dynamics for years, and these 5 signals indicate a marriage that’s likely to end in divorce with an  accuracy rate over 90% … which, when you think about it, is actually pretty amazing. OK, now, let’s dive into it… 5 Signs Your Marriage Is Doomed What are the indicators of a marriage that’s on the brink of collapse? Sign #1: Criticism or Complaining The first sign of trouble in a marriage is CRITI...

How to Get Over a Breakup

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Whether you were the one who decided it was time to move on or you were dumped outright, the end result is the same: loneliness, sadness, and a general feeling of hopelessness. Breakups are one of the more difficult emotional situations we face in life, and as a result a certain degree of emotional pain is unavoidable.  But there are also ways to move on from a breakup quickly  and with the least amount of heartbreak, and these are what I’m going to discuss in this article. First 48 Hours: Accept Reality  The first couple of days after your breakup aren’t going to be much fun. Unfortunately, there’s no way to avoid the heartache you’ll experience in the immediate aftermath of the breakup. That said, there are a few ways to help yourself get through these difficult days, and the process begins with  accepting the reality of your situation.  It’s not helpful or productive to deny the reality that you and your partner are no longer together. ...

Should You Be Friends With Your Ex?

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As a breakup coach, one of the most common questions my clients will ask me is: “Should I be friends with my ex?” On this page, I’ll be answering that question once and for all. In fact, I’ll be explaining several things, including: When you should and shouldn’t be friends with an ex Whether being friends with your ex can help you get back together Why friendly relations can make it harder to get over your ex The real reason your ex wants to stay friends after breaking up How to safely escape your ex’s “friend zone” Let’s get started! Being Friends With Your Ex: Is It A Good Idea? You’re in the midst of a breakup, and you’re going through a whirlwind of emotions. How will you be able to survive daily life without your ex? You’ve become so accustomed to having them by your side. And then, out of the blue, your ex says… “But I still want to be friends.” ‘Great’ , you think to yourself.  ‘At least I’ll still be able to have my ex around when I’m missing the...