How To Tell If A Guy Likes You (Signs To Look For)
Once you know the exact signs to look for from a guy, you’ll never be left wondering if he likes you again.
It’s because men often don’t say what they’re feeling, so you’re left playing a never-ending guessing game to try to figure it out.
“Why can’t he just come out and tell me!?” every woman in the world has thought to themselves at some point.
The truth is, men DO tell you if they like you.
But they do it in a subtle way that requires you to know the exact signs to look for.
Today I’m going to share the 10 easy-to-spot signals that clearly indicate a guy is into you…
For the most part, a guy isn’t going to send you flashing neon signs that he’s into you like two dozen red roses, professing his love outside your bedroom window, or picking you up in a horse-drawn carriage.
But just about all men put out very common, subtle signs that they’re into you. You just need to know what to look for…
When it comes to figuring out how to know if a guy likes you, nothing is more of a giveaway than the eyes.
How a man looks at you can reveal what he’s thinking and feeling on the inside. Because as they say, the eyes are the window to the soul.
So, even if he never approaches you or is too shy or insecure to make a move, he could still be interested in you. And his eyes will give you your answer.
If you want to know if a guy likes you, then look in his eyes.
Does he make, long, lasting and powerful eye contact with you?
It’s a GREAT sign if he does.
Plus, it’s just another excuse to stare dreamily into the eyes of that perfect guy…
A big toothy grin, then, becomes a tell-tale sign that a guy could be interested.
If you happen to notice your man baring those full sparkly whites, there’s a good chance it means you’re doing something to push all the right buttons. And that he’s into you.
So, look out for those pearly whites.
Pupil dilation is a brain response that happens when you like and are attracted to something.
That means if his pupils grow from small and barely noticeable to big and wide, this a strong indicator to let you know if he’s into you.
Now, obviously if you’re in a dark room and his eyes are naturally dilating to let in more light this can be a bit misleading.
But trust me, you’ll notice when his pupils dilate and it has NOTHING to do with letting in more light. And EVERYTHING to do with him liking you.
Smiles above his mouth? What on earth does that mean, Amy?
It’s pretty simple, really.
Basically, when a guy smiles with his eyes, his eyes appear to be smiling without the rest of the face joining in.
It’s what Tyra Banks calls “smizing”. And it’s a powerful sign he likes you.
When a guy “smizes” you can bet that he’s genuinely into you. Simple as that!
Think about it. If you’re attracted to someone, your body instinctively starts preparing your mouth to kiss.
So, if you notice him licking his lips or pressing them together anytime you’re around, well, he may just be into you.
It may only be subtle, but keep an eye on those lips. (As if you weren’t picturing kissing them already!)
But if you’re in a situation where he can hear you perfectly fine and he still leans in closely when you speak then chances are he’s interested in you.
When he leans in like this, he’s getting close to you, inviting you into his space – so close he can smell your perfume – and sharing your aura.
By softly stepping up the level of intimacy between you be leaning in, he’s turning an ordinary conversation into a situation charged with sexual energy.
Be aware and think to yourself next time you’re chatting: “Is he extremely close to me?” … “Can I almost feel the warmth of his breath?”
If the answer’s “yes”. Then that’s a very positive sign.
If a guy goes out of his way to touch you, this usually means he’s very interested.
Whether this means grazing your back as you cross the street, tucking a loose hair behind your ear, or simply placing a hand on your leg to emphasize a point when talking.
If the man you’re into finds reasons to initiate physical contact, then it could be a test to see how you respond to his touch.
This is such a clear sign of interest because touch is one of the body’s most emotive and powerful senses.
Just a single stroke can communicate so much, sending goosebumps all over your body and making the brain release all kinds of endorphins.
You see, the further a body part is from the brain, the less aware we are of its movements and so it’s more likely to unconsciously give off signals of our true inner feelings.
Studies have shown that if a man’s feet are pointing towards you, he could be interested, because our feet typically point in the direction they want to go.
Now, don’t spend the whole time looking down at his feet. That’ll just be weird and make him think you have a foot fetish.
But do casually keep an eye on where they’re pointing when you’re together.
If so, it means he’s more concerned about himself than you.
Of course, there are some exceptions to this.
Like a lack of space, or if he’s leading you through a crowded area.
But for the most part it’s not a good sign if he’s steaming ahead of you.
On the other hand, if he’s right there by your side, shoulder to shoulder, always adjusting his pace to match yours, it’s a good sign he’s into you.
Or, worse, when they do finally respond it’s with a short, uninteresting message like “haha” or “cool”.
These kind of short, meaningless replies show a lack of effort and interest.
But if the guy you’re texting makes an effort to hold a proper conversation with you, shows a genuine interest in your life, replies with thoughtful texts and asks meaningful questions, then it could be a sign that he’s into you.
Oh, and on the subject of texts, read my article on what to text a guy you like for some sneaky example texts that will get him thinking about you in a romantic way…
Once you spot these signs, and you’re pretty confident that he likes you, your next step is crucial…
You want to set yourself up for success, and you want to win your man’s heart at the highest point of his attraction.
“Does He Like Me, Or Is He Just Being Nice?”
Trying to figure out if a guy likes you or not can drive you crazy.It’s because men often don’t say what they’re feeling, so you’re left playing a never-ending guessing game to try to figure it out.
“Why can’t he just come out and tell me!?” every woman in the world has thought to themselves at some point.
The truth is, men DO tell you if they like you.
But they do it in a subtle way that requires you to know the exact signs to look for.
Today I’m going to share the 10 easy-to-spot signals that clearly indicate a guy is into you…
0 Signs A Guy Likes You
Men aren’t great at communicating their feelings. It’s just reality.For the most part, a guy isn’t going to send you flashing neon signs that he’s into you like two dozen red roses, professing his love outside your bedroom window, or picking you up in a horse-drawn carriage.
But just about all men put out very common, subtle signs that they’re into you. You just need to know what to look for…
Sign #1: He Makes Eye Contact With You
When it comes to figuring out how to know if a guy likes you, nothing is more of a giveaway than the eyes.How a man looks at you can reveal what he’s thinking and feeling on the inside. Because as they say, the eyes are the window to the soul.
So, even if he never approaches you or is too shy or insecure to make a move, he could still be interested in you. And his eyes will give you your answer.
If you want to know if a guy likes you, then look in his eyes.
Does he make, long, lasting and powerful eye contact with you?
It’s a GREAT sign if he does.
Plus, it’s just another excuse to stare dreamily into the eyes of that perfect guy…
Sign #2: He Shows His Teeth When He Smiles
Ok, this one may sound a little odd but believe it or not most guys stop grinning with an open mouth before they become teenagers.A big toothy grin, then, becomes a tell-tale sign that a guy could be interested.
If you happen to notice your man baring those full sparkly whites, there’s a good chance it means you’re doing something to push all the right buttons. And that he’s into you.
So, look out for those pearly whites.
Sign #3: His Pupils Are Huge
Back to eyes again with this one.Pupil dilation is a brain response that happens when you like and are attracted to something.
That means if his pupils grow from small and barely noticeable to big and wide, this a strong indicator to let you know if he’s into you.
Now, obviously if you’re in a dark room and his eyes are naturally dilating to let in more light this can be a bit misleading.
But trust me, you’ll notice when his pupils dilate and it has NOTHING to do with letting in more light. And EVERYTHING to do with him liking you.
Sign #4: He Smiles Above The Mouth
Smiles above his mouth? What on earth does that mean, Amy?It’s pretty simple, really.
Basically, when a guy smiles with his eyes, his eyes appear to be smiling without the rest of the face joining in.
It’s what Tyra Banks calls “smizing”. And it’s a powerful sign he likes you.
When a guy “smizes” you can bet that he’s genuinely into you. Simple as that!
Sign #5: He Licks His Lips In A Cute (Non-Creepy) Way
Science has proven that when you’re attracted to someone, your mouth produces extra saliva.Think about it. If you’re attracted to someone, your body instinctively starts preparing your mouth to kiss.
So, if you notice him licking his lips or pressing them together anytime you’re around, well, he may just be into you.
It may only be subtle, but keep an eye on those lips. (As if you weren’t picturing kissing them already!)
Sign #6: He Leans Towards You When You Talk
In a noisy bar, this sign might not mean much, as he could simply be straining to hear you.But if you’re in a situation where he can hear you perfectly fine and he still leans in closely when you speak then chances are he’s interested in you.
When he leans in like this, he’s getting close to you, inviting you into his space – so close he can smell your perfume – and sharing your aura.
By softly stepping up the level of intimacy between you be leaning in, he’s turning an ordinary conversation into a situation charged with sexual energy.
Be aware and think to yourself next time you’re chatting: “Is he extremely close to me?” … “Can I almost feel the warmth of his breath?”
If the answer’s “yes”. Then that’s a very positive sign.
Sign #7: He Finds A Reason To Touch You
This is one of the clearest signs a guy is into you.If a guy goes out of his way to touch you, this usually means he’s very interested.
Whether this means grazing your back as you cross the street, tucking a loose hair behind your ear, or simply placing a hand on your leg to emphasize a point when talking.
If the man you’re into finds reasons to initiate physical contact, then it could be a test to see how you respond to his touch.
This is such a clear sign of interest because touch is one of the body’s most emotive and powerful senses.
Just a single stroke can communicate so much, sending goosebumps all over your body and making the brain release all kinds of endorphins.
Sign #8: He Points His Toes Toward You
Believe it or not, feet are largely controlled by the unconscious mind and the direction they point can be very telling when it comes to reading body language.You see, the further a body part is from the brain, the less aware we are of its movements and so it’s more likely to unconsciously give off signals of our true inner feelings.
Studies have shown that if a man’s feet are pointing towards you, he could be interested, because our feet typically point in the direction they want to go.
Now, don’t spend the whole time looking down at his feet. That’ll just be weird and make him think you have a foot fetish.
But do casually keep an eye on where they’re pointing when you’re together.
Sign #9: He Walks Beside You
When you walk together, is he constantly two steps ahead of you?If so, it means he’s more concerned about himself than you.
Of course, there are some exceptions to this.
Like a lack of space, or if he’s leading you through a crowded area.
But for the most part it’s not a good sign if he’s steaming ahead of you.
On the other hand, if he’s right there by your side, shoulder to shoulder, always adjusting his pace to match yours, it’s a good sign he’s into you.
Sign #10: He Keeps The Conversation Going
There is nothing more annoying than texting a guy who takes hours to respond.Or, worse, when they do finally respond it’s with a short, uninteresting message like “haha” or “cool”.
These kind of short, meaningless replies show a lack of effort and interest.
But if the guy you’re texting makes an effort to hold a proper conversation with you, shows a genuine interest in your life, replies with thoughtful texts and asks meaningful questions, then it could be a sign that he’s into you.
Oh, and on the subject of texts, read my article on what to text a guy you like for some sneaky example texts that will get him thinking about you in a romantic way…
Has He Already Shown Some Of These Signs?
Has a guy you like already displayed several of these 10 signs? Then he probably likes you!Once you spot these signs, and you’re pretty confident that he likes you, your next step is crucial…
You want to set yourself up for success, and you want to win your man’s heart at the highest point of his attraction.
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